EFTA Document EFTA01618667

Platform: iMessage Timezone: UTC+0000 • 1212 5333739 +1 (212) 533-3739 Larry Summers LS Larry Summers 2019f04/18 1212 5333739 77 06:10:02 pm Phony war. I wrote back. Joint research homeownership family—best books have several chapters and happy endings. Was coming to look at London real estate. She asked whether I got Bank of England job. I said no wanted to with her. She said much changing not making hasty decisions. We spoke on phone. She mainly interested in her negotiation re becoming full prof. LS 06:21:33 pm Larry Summers 1212 5333739 • iii As she should. , so far. Still no deed only talk talk talk 06:29:49 pm I'm coming to London to look at real estate. 06:31:04 pm View on mueller??? LS 11:32:14 pin 1212 5333739 As I said barr was perfect 11:32:52 pm • EFTA01618667 Larry Summers 777 LS 11:33:36 pm 1212 5333739 The only item was in book 2 - referrals- still secret 12 11:34:28 pm Larry Summers I m doing show up in London deed LS 11:34:34 pin 1212 5333739 Did you like the take an apt idea instead of cash 11:36:05 pm Larry Summers She owns a really quite nice apt. LS 11:44:23 pm 2019/04/19 1212 5333739 Owns or rents? 12:32:02 am I have an idea. Phone only 12:32:32 am Larry Summers Owns LS 01:45:31 am EFTA01618668 1212 5333739 you were just hired by a london org that requires your attendance a week a month. your staff can arrange your travel etc. you can organize a place for your trips 01:47:36 am i received from another dictator 01:47:53 am Larry Summers How do I get hired? LS 01:55:12 am Larry Summers 1212 5333739 fiction 04:17:34 am Complex lie. She is saying. Needs space can't think about next chapter given parents I said I'm ignoring and she can ignore me when I come if she wants. 12:39:15 pin Did u call LS 01:40:52 pm 2019/04/20 Larry Summers She just writes about her book. When I make clear serious re next chapter she puts off. Think I need a generous act w a cut off of communication s strategy. My shrink says she wouldn't be here if she was capable of sustained relationships. LS 02:17:51 pm 1212 5333739 nonsense. She would nt stand on the pool steps if she knew you wouldn't let her drown .. 02:59:11 pm • • EFTA01618669 Your shrink would say she wasn't capable of swimming 02:59:30 pm Larry Summers Don't follow analogy. 03:19:58 pin Don't follow. 36 years old. Beautiful. Never had a bf who lasted 2 years before. Something off re intimacy dependence I think. LS 03:42:47 pin 1212 5333739 Silly, she's smart. And confused. They go hand in hand 03:46:51 pin If you like I'm on 011 331 441 70210 03:47:06 pm Also tell me what experience your shrink has with Chinese girls 03:47:38 pm Larry Summers Probably not lots for my shrink. I m just frustrated which is a silly basis for doing things. I think she is unlikely to get uncinfused and therefore likely always to be frustrating. What am I missing. LS 05:07:57 pm 1212 5333739 If frustrating is defined as doing what you expect. Luckily it will continue. Trick is to what degree 05:10:28 pin • • • EFTA01618670 Larry Summers Don't follow these pearls of wisdom and am suddenly feeling very fed up with this adventure. LS 10:00:14 pm 1212 5333739 Marvin minks said the way to lose weight was to enjoy feeling hungry. What I mean is that they are all non rational . As you and I are very used to getting our way. It should act as a reminder. That unpredictable is part of life. Mentally Stamping your feet , in a fed up tantrum.. is sort of cute 10:06:51 pm And there has been no deed to date. Only talky talk 10:07:28 pm Larry Summers Yes yes. I get this and am thinking about deeds. I can get past all the stupid stuff. I just as I reflect am saying why won't she always be a confused ambivalent mess and will that make me happy. I think today I II be happier w Lisa and looking for problems to solve or things to think about. She will always be roller coaster. Who wants to get old w that? ioli:04 pm Think time out time. I'm getting more annoyed each time focus is 100 percent on her next speech. LS ioli:53 pm 1212 5333739 You lean towards feeling abused and victimized. I get it. Stick to the plan so you don t look back and say, I should have 10:15:15 pm Roller coaster or carousel . Always the issue 10:44:24 pm • • EFTA01618671 Larry Summers I will stick a bit but I thjnk signals from other side increasingly clear LS 11:10:30 pin 1212 5333739 If you don't have the heart . Make the punishment clear. You need to ask her to do something for you. When she refuses. If she refuses. , you can say , enough is enough. , this isn't a friendship its a one way street.. and you have decided not giving you what you need. So good luck . 11:15:18 pin Ehud said that Bibi won the election because the other guy , didn't really look like he wanted to win. Nothing more nothing less 11:16:09 pin 2019/04/21 Larry Summers I get point of Ehud story. I will persevere w zero whining for next 10 days. See if anything happens other than econ discussion then will announce arrival in London and see what happens. If nothing will say I'm fine b 01:49:05 am Done LS 01:49:10 am V Read 1212 5333739 You should decide if you are in the right frame of mind . No rush ! Alternatively break all contact- now for 1 week- get her worried 09:24:43 am No notice 09:24:59 am  Sent EFTA01618672